A truly rational person understands that speech determines behaviors, behavior determines thoughts, and thoughts produce emotions. When the three match, you are happier and more content with your life. When they do not match the conflict produces fear, uncertainty and people pleasing behaviors. Eventually, the personality is affected and the sufferer is seen as a rude, insincere, hypocritical person. Rational Christian Living (RCL) can help you to reverse this cycle and become the best you that you can offer.